Three Basic Doctrines, #3: God's Fatherhood

1st April 2001

1. Introduction
2. God's essential fatherhood
3. The progression of our relationship with God
        3.1. Enemies
        3.2. Servants
        3.3. Friends
        3.4. Family
4. Benefits of being God's children
        4.1. Forgiveness
        4.2. Discipline
        4.3. An inheritance
5. Application and response
        5.1. Security
        5.2. Love for our father
        5.3. Worship

1. Introduction

We want to understand what it means that God is our father. In the Old Testament, this aspect of his character is not seen clearly, so that it was a revelation when Jesus taught his disciples to pray ``Our father''. But what exactly does it mean?

There are at least two facets to this:

We'll look more closely at these aspects in the next two sections.

2. God's essential fatherhood

[...] I kneel before the Father, from whom his whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name - or - from whom all fatherhood in heaven and on earth derives its name.
- Ephesians 3:14-15

This verse can be translated in two different ways, which carry much the same idea in rather different ways. The point here is not that God's fatherhood is explained by analogy with human fatherhood as though it were a shadow of the reality - quite the opposite! God's fatherhood is the reality, and the biological and social fatherhood that we're familiar with is a shadow of it. You might even say that human fatherhood was created as an analogy to help us understand God's fatherhood.

3. The progression of our relationship with God

God demonstrates his mercy (not giving us the punishment that we deserve) by treating us not as the enemies that our sin has made us, but as servants. But there's more: he demonstrates his grace (giving us a reward that we don't deserve) by treating us as friends; and now, finally, as family members. We can trace this progression in the bible.

3.1. Enemies

Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior. But now he has reconciled you by Christ's physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation.
- Colossians 1:21-22

In our natural state, before Jesus' intervention, our sin made us God's enemies. That is, in choosing to sin, we made ourselves enemies of God. As C. S. Lewis often points out, every decision we make contributes in a small but real way towards making us creatures fir either for heaven or for hell; and in our natural state, those decisions move us away from God because ``without faith, it is impossible to please God'' (Hebrews 11:6)

3.2. Servants

Suppose one of you had a servant plowing or looking after the sheep. Would he say to the servant when he comes in from the field, `Come along now and sit down to eat'? Would he not rather say, `Prepare my supper, get yourself ready and wait on me while I eat and drink; after that you may eat and drink'? Would he thank the servant because he did what he was told to do? So you also, when you have done everything you were told to do, should say, `We are unworthy servants; we have only done our duty.'
- Luke 17:7-10

Jesus here makes the analogy between us and servants; and not even particularly effective servants. The point here is that God owes us nothing and we owe him everything.

3.3. Friends

I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.
- John 15:13-15

Here we see the transition from servanthood to friendship.

3.4. Family

But what God has done for us is greater than moving us from the status of enemies to servants and then to friends. Ephesians 1:5 says ``He predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ''. (And yes, of course we can insert ``and daughters'' after the word ``sons'' here - the connotation of sonship here is the entitlement to an inheritance, rather than gender specification.)

John expands on this theme:

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when he appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.
- 1 John 3:1-2

In Romans 8:15 (see below), the Greek has in the past been translated as ``spirit of adoption'' - for example, in the King James translation. Reliable sources, however, say that ``sonship'' is a better rendition: God's adoption is so complete and so seamless that we are indistinguishable from natural sons and daughters.

(Incidentally, notice that there seems to be a fifth element in this enemies / servants / friends / family progression - John says ``now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known''!)

Because God is both Jesus' father and ours, Jesus is our brother. The bible makes this explicit: ``Both the one who makes men holy and those who are made holy are of the same family. So Jesus is not ashamed to call them brothers'' (Hebrews 2:11)

4. Benefits of being God's children

4.1. Forgiveness

Next to the crucifixion and resurrection, the parable of the prodigal son must be the most familiar story on the bible, to the point where repetition has dulled its edge. If we can manage to hear it with fresh ears, it is one of the most affecting narratives anywhere in the bible:

There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, ``Father, give me my share of the estate.'' So he divided his property between them. Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living.

After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything.

When he came to his senses, he said, ``How many of my father's hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men.''

So he got up and went to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. The son said to him, ``Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.'' But the father said to his servants, ``Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let's have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.''

- Luke 15:11-24

I know from experience that it's much easier to forgive my own children than other people's! More than that, it's an absolute joy to forgive my children, and whenever Danny does something wrong, I long for him to apologise because I so enjoy the forgiveness and reconciliation. God the father feels the same way about his children.

4.2. Discipline

My son, do not make light of the Lord's discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son. Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
- Hebrews 12:5-11

Discipline is not a particularly popular benefit, but it's a benefit nevertheless, ``because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything'' (James 1:3) And in Revelation 3:19, God says ``Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline''.

4.3. An inheritance

Because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, ``Abba, Father.'' So you are no longer a slave, but a son; and since you are a son, God has made you also an heir.
- Galatians 4:4-7

We are heirs to ``an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade'' - 1 Peter 1:3-4.

5. Application and response

5.1. Security

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father's hand.
- John 10:27-29

When we understand that God's love for us is so constant and unconditional that the very best earthly father's love is only a weak reflection of it, there is no reason for us ever to feel insecure over anything. Our salvation is safe in the hands of one who loves us absolutely passionately; and given that God loves us so passionately and unswervingly, ``how will he not also [...] graciously give us all things?'' (Romans 8:32)

For people whose earthly fathers were inadequate or absent, this sense of security does not always come easily - the analogy of God's fatherhood with human fatherhood does not help people whose human fathers did not give them security. Perhaps all we can say here is that God is better than the best of all human fathers, not just better than our own fathers. Remember, ``the Father, from whom all fatherhood in heaven and on earth derives its name'' is the real father.

5.2. Love for our father

You received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, ``Abba, Father.'' The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs - heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ.
- Romans 8:15-17

The word `Abba'' is informal Aramaic for ``father'' (while the word translated ``father'' in the passage above is Greek.) The closest thing to a literal translation of ``Abba'' would be an affectionate term like ``daddy''.

5.3. Worship

Of course!

 
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